When I had my first child, things went well, all in all. I was initiation in the afternoon, I gave birth 15 hours later in the morning, and my beautiful son fell on my lap, slipping into my arms. latching. I remember him staring at me incessantly, looking at my face. After that we moved to a private room, and I went to a breastfeeding study at the bottom of the hall, before Grandpa came to meet her. In the midst of all this turmoil, my happy son was fast asleep, wrapped in a bassinet by my side, as I thought.
That same night, I sent my husband home, seeing him thrown inconsolably and setting up a barn in our room. (He is 6’4).) “Go home, clean the house, rest, and come back in the morning,” I said. “I have this!”
Note to author: I have never had this.
My baby, like many, “woke up” the second night — she was alert, hungry and very angry for not being in her warm, calm stomach. He cried incessantly until I stood up and shook him, back and forth, back and forth, back and forth. (These Amazing “two nights”-When the baby is smart, so is the mother the milk has not yet come– it is well known that it was written in a notebook that the hospital gave us at birth, but I was too confused to read it.)
After an hour or two of shaking, I decided I wanted to take a break and go out to care for the elderly to give birth. To my surprise, the nurse I found did not take her, but instead gave me a warm blanket cover I went in, patted me on the shoulder, and said, “You’re doing all the right things.”
So I went back to my room. It was now 30 hours and working away from the last time I slept, I was bleeding profusely, and I was shaking my baby, back and forth, back and forth, back and forth, back and forth. The shadows from the lights of the house just stared and took away from his face, and he looked at me, not silently, but very alert.
The thought struck me: Is this where she will be a mother? I, to do whatever this child needs, no matter how sick I am? (Warning of hackers: Yes — for the next few moments.)
When I told my mom about all of this, she was shocked that my experience was so different from what she had done after giving birth, in the 1980’s. When he got home, my parents would give me a bottle of milk every night, so that my mother would not make enough milk.
This shift is due in part to the growing body of evidence that supports the so-called “bedroom” – the way a mother and baby are kept in the same room – and encourages exclusive breastfeeding. This means more support and encouragement for breastfeeding, no nursing babies, and depressed babies the second night.
Among the COVID-19, it is also difficult: many hospitals allow people to give birth to a single caregiver, and there are no visitors. This often means that the mother cannot have a doula, or your mother, and a spouse. In some cases, COVID restrictions have also stated that mothers and their loved ones are not allowed to leave the hospital room — no food, no smoking, no reception or opportunity. The epidemic has also increased the time it takes for a baby to be sent to a nursery or to be cared for in a nursing home.
Postpartum deliveries are also being sent home from the hospital as soon as possible – the number of survivors has dropped by 30 percent since the outbreak began.
The Baby-Friendly Hospital Initiative, launched by the World Health Organization in 1992, has also helped to promote this change, even before the coronavirus was introduced. Twenty-nine hospitals in Canada have been certified as “child-friendly”, meaning they comply with ten WHO guidelines, including breastfeeding training staff, ensuring breastfeeding, sleeping, no pacifiers, and promoting nutrition. wishes, and blindness and blindness unborn. And the aforementioned hospitals have to refuse money from formula companies, avoid advertising, and will not give it to you unless they need medication.
This can be seen as moving the birth back to where it should be: not separating mothers and babies unnecessarily, and supporting breastfeeding as the only way to feed the baby. Most women love it, especially. When I asked for feedback on a small Facebook group of parents, one mother replied, “Try to get my baby out of my room when I give birth and push you down, grandpa dogs and all!”
Another said that after doing a lot of research during her pregnancy, she went to the doctor with a list of questionnaires, such as blindness and blindness, and was encouraged to hear that they were all fit for the hospital she was going to.
But others, like me, have mixed experiences. Alli Glydon, a mother in Calgary, is one. After giving birth, she had a C-grade for that reason the baby was resting. He later acted on the vein he was given, and became seriously ill for the next eight hours.
Then, she had a breastfeeding problem, and the nurses encouraged her to get up every few hours to offer her hand to inject a few drops of colostrum to give to her baby. She later realized that her baby had a tongue, small mouth and mouth, which is why breastfeeding was difficult. In addition, Glydon had a rare case of Reynaud’s disease, which could make nursing more painful.
“My daughter was obviously hungry – she was rooted and never lost – and I couldn’t explain anything more than a drop or two colostrum. The nurses were surprised when I asked for a formula, and it took me a long time to arrive – about 30 minutes, ”he said. “I feel like I have to ask for it.”
Talia Bender, a mother in Vancouver, also had a problem. After that 25-hour work, was transferred to a room by her son. That night, when she was alone (her husband was at home with their older children), she was tired and breastfeeding the baby while they were all asleep. “The nurse came and scolded me, saying,” This is illegal, “she said. you it wasn’t here! ”
Bender says he feels like he wants to leave the mother alone this way, after giving birth, is not uncommon. “When you think of births in the past, you had midwives with your family and a way to help; all the women live there to hold the baby, and the new mother to get better, ”she says. “Now we have babies born in the hospital and families are everywhere, and there are a lot of complications for the new mother, as well as neglect of recovery.”
The question of whether the Early Childhood has gone too far has been making headlines recently because of US so-called Money Is The Best Thing. Established in 2016, the Fed and Best states that hospitals promote breast-feeding, putting children at risk for dehydration, jaundice, hypoglycemia (low blood sugar) and hyponatremia (low sodium).
“There are billions of babies in need of milk at some point in their first year of life,” say Fed and co-founder and physician Christie del Castillo-Hegyi. “To hide this is to give parents the idea that breastfeeding is possible, natural, easy and appropriate. everything infants, without any evidence, and do not report or condone harm – these have created serious social problems, ”he said.
Through its website, Fed is Best picks up and publishes stories like Landon, a healthy baby who has died at the age of 19 days of heart failure due to malnutrition. “If I had just given him one bottle, he would have survived,” she said.
In 2016 JAMA Diseases In a statement, pediatrician Joel Bass also expressed concerns about the sudden arrival of a baby boomer, including a focus on breastfeeding alone. Bass says every hospital should have a nursery for healthy children, which is why mothers have the opportunity to send their babies there to rest, and that giving a small dose in the early days of life will not affect breastfeeding.
He added that even many breastfeeding hospitals are frustrated using a pacifier, new evidence suggests that it does not interfere with breastfeeding — and may even encourage it — and that putting babies to bed with a towel helps prevent Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS).
But some say that the Initiative-Friendly Initiative allows for milk when needed. “There are babies who need milk – there are medical reasons to supplement it – and it’s okay,” says Hiltrud Dawson, a nurse and breastfeeding counselor who works. How to Spend Kids with Ontario. “I believe that babies are given the necessary milk when needed.”
It is also important to remember that in the case of children who lose weight after leaving the hospital, Canada has better protection. than the US does, says Merilee Brockway, a registered nurse and lactation counselor who studies how human milk affects babies. This includes infants seeing a doctor or nurse in public within one week of leaving the hospital — that is when the baby is weighed and experts help parents ensure that breastfeeding is in order.
Because of the lack of time to bring mothers home, parents are also not sent home with enough information, Dawson said. In response, his team helped create a card with the information of the new mother about how to make sure their baby fits – plus how many wet toys they should look for, spinal cord changes in the baby, and that their children might be made fat from the fourth day onward. They also need to have a loud cry, be quick, and get up easily.
If your baby is overweight, it seems there is a benefit in not giving up any option, says Brockway – although this is not really helpful for new parents who are anxious about breastfeeding (EBF). “We can see significant differences in the intestinal microbiome in even one way to supplement it,” he says. Researchers have actually discovered a link between the intestinal microbiome and such factors as asthma and obesity – but there is not enough research to confirm how those connections work, or how much of an absorption can affect them.
Brockway adds that there is ample evidence that maternal health is important in raising a happy, healthy baby — and if so Mothers suffer the most from wanting to breastfeed, it may be reason enough to add. And she says some health professionals can be “obsessed” by encouraging women to breastfeed. He would like to see the words “breast is best” and “well-fed” and replaced by a new one: “the one who knows best is the best.”
“We have a lot of risks in breastfeeding and breastfeeding right now in Canada. Many mothers I want to breastfeeding. But breastfeeding can be very difficult, and if you are having labor pains, or if the mother is sick, it can be very difficult, ”she says. “We have to say, ‘Are we forcing mothers to follow this path?’ We must respect the rights of women. ”